If you read yesterday’s post it was about boundaries and reframing your relationships. It was called “Honor Thy Mother.”
Now go through that post and exchange mother for the role of the person you are dealing with: boss, coworker, former best friend, current best friend, husband, aunt, uncle, father, sibling, you name it-literally.
Now, read it again.
If a person doesn’t have any honor to acknowledge, live like you learned from their dishonor. Then honor yourself. Rise above. This is how we honor whatever purpose their memory serves to grow and live better. Take whatever negative lessons they have taught you and live like you learned from it.