Free 1:1 On Maintaining YOUR Boundaries

What is your value?

Time is money.

My time, your time, time itself… it all is valuable.

More than that, your attention is your most valuable asset. Corporations including governments pay millions, billions, even trillions in advertising, propagandizing and marketing every year, all around the world to get YOUR attention and use the unlimited power of your mind.

You are valuable.

What you think you are worth is probably wrong. You have been made to believe you are just the sum total of your assets versus your debts, but marketers know better. They see the potential in you, and they are financially invested in you making choices that add up to their bottom line increasing. This, in many if not most cases, leads to your bottom line decreasing and to you feeling worthless because of decisions you made. They are exploiting the permeability of your boundaries. That sucks.

But corporations, religions and governments aren’t the real problem.

What’s worse is when we have allowed friends and loved ones to exploit us. Sometimes the people closest to us are doing the most intimate work on our boundaries, punching holes, leaving us exposed to those other outside agents gathering like vultures to take the ultimate plunder. It’s in maintaining our boundaries in our most personal relationships where the most POWERFUL strength comes to tap into those resources that those trillion dollar corporations and governments have been capitalizing on. If you desperately need that capital you’ve been losing, you need to maintain those boundaries with your friends and family now.

You can do this.

I’ve been there. You can buy my book if you want to hear the whole story, Autobiography of a Nobody: From Floundering to Freedom. But I’m not going to take more of your valuable time and attention today, right now, talking about myself if you are in this leaky-boundary, crisis point. That’s a waste of both our times in this blog. Like I said, there’s lots of value shared through my experiences in my book. You can read that later.

Right now, you may be in a position where you need to stop the hemorrhaging of your potential and attention (and assets) quickly. Most of the time, a compromise to our boundaries looks like an argument we lose with ourselves which brings more guilt, shame and distrust, which leads to lower self esteem. It’s a shaky foundation upon which you have to make future arguments for yourself that you are set up to lose. It’s a downward spiral of decisions that lead to worse positions to make new choices.

I have created a framework to start making different decisions today that will seal up those porous portions in personal boundaries where your energy and life force are leaking out.

In this model, you do not have to tell anyone “no.”

I know it feels as though you are in a position where saying “yes” is self-sabotage and saying “no” is empowerment. The problem isn’t your answer. It’s the question.

I know my weak-boundaries people are already thinking, “Oh God, boundaries for me are not gonna work. I say ‘no,’ then I feel guilty, and then eventually, I buckle and say ‘yes’ again later.”

Everything I am going to tell you is going to help you say “yes” to yourself AND OTHERS- without betraying yourself or others. It’s just going to take some reframing of the questions being asked and making some creative negotiations to turn this around. You need some wins, your friends need some wins and that isn’t going to come through you allowing your most precious resource to bleed out all over the place. I have the experience helping people put this framework to good use and to stop those leaks for myself, my friends and my family.

All you may need is ONE conversation

…to shift your thinking about the question and give yourself the framework and confidence to make different choices about your personal boundaries.

One conversation could stop that spiral and give you the footing and the directions to set your life on a new course forever. Let’s talk about your boundaries dilemma. I can’t guarantee to give you a strong, impervious boundary for your future success, but I can help you with the framework and negotiation to create that for yourself.

Why am I doing 1:1 consultations for free?

I am building case studies for my future work. If I can help you, it proves the merit of these ideas to help more people in the future. I need testers to give me feedback. I need your attention, your time and your life story to help me help you and the world at large. Your experience, but more importantly, your WINS, you reclaiming your own capital in a big way is valuable to me regardless of how small it may feel to you right now. This is a one time opportunity to take advantage of my resources to work through your leaky boundaries and set up a new framework for yourself so that your boundaries are dynamically expansive where you need them to be, always bringing more good in and no longer draining out your resources.

The first step is now.

Email me right now. Tell me what your immediate boundary issue is, and we can make an appointment to work on it for one hour or less, free of charge. We’ll come up with a pivot, a plan or a negotiation. You’ll have an empowering “yes” answer for your situation. We can find your empowering, boundary affirming “yes” in any situation.

What’s the catch?

All I ask is that in a month after our call, when I send you a brief follow-up survey, that you fill it out. It’ll be a couple boxes to check off and one short answer form. That’s it. That’s the only catch and commitment to this opportunity.

Let’s get to work.

If you’re committed to improve, I am committed to give you the tools to make this improvement last.

Are you ready to discover the value of your own boundaries that governments and agencies are paying trillions to exploit?

This is my personal email. Reach out now.

TheKarenKeener@gmail.com